How To Choose a Baby Carrier For You

Navigating the world of baby gear as a parent can be overwhelming. With so many brands and options for each kind of product on the market, it’s hard to know what you actually want or need—especially if you’re a first-time parent making decisions before your baby even arrives. Baby carriers are no exception. Between all the wraps, slings, and structured carriers available, how do you know whether you even need a baby carrier—let alone which one will work best for you and your little one?

We’re here to help make it feel simple, not stressful. If you’re wondering which baby carrier you should get, we’re breaking down everything you need to know to make a decision. 

Do You Need a Baby Carrier?

First things first, you might be wondering whether you actually need a baby carrier. Our answer? A resounding YES. The benefits of babywearing are seemingly endless—for both you and baby. It's shown to reduce infant crying by 43%, promote healthy attachment, and ward off postpartum depression (just to name a few!). And beyond that, baby carriers are the ultimate convenience play—smaller and easier to carry around than a stroller, travel-friendly, and the simplest way to keep your little one close while freeing up your hands to tend to life’s other demands. Babywearing is one of the best ways to bring calm and confidence to your parenting journey. 

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Types of Baby Carriers

There are many different kinds of baby carriers, but the three most common are wraps. slings, and structured carriers. Each one has the same basic purpose—to carry your little one—but they have different features that make them better suited for different preferences, situations, and babies. Here’s an overview:

Wraps: Stretchy vs. Woven – What’s the difference?

There are two types of baby carrier wraps: stretchy wraps and woven wraps. Both are long pieces of fabric that tie around your body to hold your baby, but the difference lies in the fabric itself.

• Stretchy Wraps: Made from soft, knitted fabric that has gentle stretch. They’re lightweight, compact, and cozy-feeling—ideal for newborns and the early months. They can only be used in a front-facing-in position, but they’re easier to learn than woven wraps and can even be safely used after a C-section.

• Woven Wraps: Made from woven fabric with no stretch. They’re supportive from newborn to toddlerhood and can be worn in multiple positions. However, they’re thicker, less compact, and come with a steeper learning curve.

The Solly Baby Wrap is a stretchy wrap made from buttery-soft, naturally breathable 100% TENCEL™ Modal—making it incredibly lightweight, ideal for all seasons, and comfortable for hours of wear.

Slings

A sling is a piece of fabric that loops over one shoulder and across your torso, creating a pouch for baby. They’re quick once you get the hang of it and great for “up and down” toddlers. Because weight is carried on one side of your body, slings may feel less supportive for longer stretches. Ring slings are especially popular for older babies who like to look around or be carried on the hip.

Structured Carriers

Structured carriers use buckles, straps, and a more defined shape to hold baby. They’re great for older babies and toddlers who want more visibility and for parents who prefer a quick, clip-on option. When using a carrier, always be sure to follow the safety recommendations outlined by the manufacturer. 

The Solly Buckle Carrier combines the ease of a structured carrier with our signature softness, sleek design, and minimalist aesthetic.  Crafted with European linen on the outside and a Solly Luxe™  interior, it features a cross-back design for even weight distribution, easy-to-adjust straps, and an apron-style belt that sits comfortably at your natural waist. 

Factors To Consider When Choosing A Baby Carrier

Baby’s Age + Stage

Every stage has its sweet spot when it comes to babywearing. Wraps are especially supportive and calming for newborns—like a soft, snug extension of your arms—while structured carriers tend to shine once your little one has grown a bit. Many parents love having both for different seasons of parenthood. Just be sure to check the carrier’s minimum weight and height requirements. Most structured carriers can’t be safely used until baby is at least 3 months old and able to sit in a way that keeps their airways clear.

Safety

Above all, safety comes first. Choose a carrier or wrap that’s hip-healthy—look for that natural “M” shape, where baby’s knees are higher than their bottom and hips are supported. Certifications from reputable organizations like the International Hip Dysplasia Institute can give you peace of mind. It’s also worth confirming that the carrier meets CPSC and ASTM standards for consumer product safety. We totally understand the appeal of an Amazon dupe, but carriers are one area where cutting corners just isn’t worth it. Some “dupes” have been reported to have seams rip, buckles pop, or fabric tear. Baby’s safety is literally in the hands of your carrier—so if your dream carrier isn’t in the budget right now, consider trusted resale options.

Safety Tip: Remember TICKS—Tight, In view at all times, Close enough to kiss, Keep chin off chest, Supported back. This acronym helps you do a quick safety check every time you babywear.

Comfort

You’re going to be wearing baby for hours—maybe daily—so comfort matters. Look for natural fabrics (many non-natural fabrics such as mesh are advertised as breathable, but actually aren’t!) and ergonomic designs that evenly distribute weight across your shoulders, hips, and back. A good fit benefits both you and your baby. Small adjustments—tightening, loosening, or spreading the fabric—can make a world of difference.

Ease of Use

Think about your routine and personality. Do you love a cozy, slow moment to wrap and tie your carrier (almost like a grounding ritual), or do you want a quick clip-and-go option for errands and school drop-offs? Both have their perks.

Lifestyle

Consider how and where you’ll be wearing your baby. Are you mostly at home during the fourth trimester, wearing your baby for contact naps? Or do you need something more travel-ready for grocery runs and park walks? Matching your carrier to your lifestyle makes daily use feel seamless.

Washability

Life with little ones is messy—spit-up, snacks, sunscreen, and sweat happen. Choose a carrier you can easily toss in the wash or spot clean so it’s always ready to go.

Aesthetic

You’ll be wearing your carrier more than any other “outfit” in the early months, so choose one that feels like you. Colors, fabrics, and silhouettes you love will make you reach for it more often. When you feel good in it, you’ll use it even more—and your baby will love it, too.

How To Pick Your Baby Carrier

Carriers are like cars—there isn’t a single type that works for everyone. Every family is different, and so is every baby. The best carrier for you is the one that supports your lifestyle, feels comfortable on your body, and helps your little one feel safe and soothed.

If you're unsure about what kind of carrier you want, consider reaching out to parents you know and trust to share their own experiences (and carriers!) with you. You can also check to see if your city has a local baby carrier lending library that allows you to try various carrier types and brands to determine what you like best. 

If you're curious about the Solly Wrap or Buckle Carrier, you can compare them here or take our carrier quiz to determine the best fit for you.